Metal Anarchy

Former Cradle Of Filth keyboardist/vocalist Lindsay Schoolcraft has blasted All That Remains singer Phil Labonte over recent comments in which he claimed “therapy is for women.” Schoolcraft says Labonte’s statement was an “extremely toxic, masculine view.”

Schoolcraft told Blabbermouth the following:

“He’s not a healthcare professional, he’s not a psychologist, he’s not a therapist.

This is my opinion and I’m not a professional either — I have a lot of male friends in therapy and it’s done them a world of wonder and has transformed their lives because you can do healing work and then you can do growing work, and there’s life coaching. You can come out on the other side. You don’t have to struggle.

Discouraging people from going to therapy, especially men — that’s an extremely toxic, masculine view that is ultimately an opinion from the patriarchy that has done a lot of damage to society and is the reason why it’s crumbling right now. I don’t know… I think he probably does need to go to therapy and is a scared little boy who cares too much about the scared little boy inside, his inner child and is scared of what his macho homies are going to think of him.

There should be no shame in getting help. If your brain is broken, you need a doctor. If you broke a bone, you’re not going to leave the bone broken; you’re going to get help. You’re not going to get a Band-Aid. You’re going to get it reset and cast and x-rayed. That’s what therapy is. It’s healing the brain. But I don’t think that’s a very good message, especially for young men who could be struggling.”